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A Prayer For Parents: Praying For Aging Moms & Dads

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Prayer For Parents

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Who taught you to pray? For a lot of us, our parents instructed us about prayers as they put us to bed each night. Maybe they taught you this familiar, simple prayer:

“Now I lay me down to sleep;

I pray the Lord my soul to keep.

May God guard me through the night,

And wake me with the morning light. Amen.”

They enriched our understanding of the importance of spending time with God each day.

Some of us moved away from home when we ventured off to college. Once graduated, we set off in search of jobs and futures, which left us far from our parents.

Phone calls and FaceTime keeps us connected, but it is still not the same for our parents. We might visit them on holidays and vacations but not as often as they would like.

The love we hold for mom and dad did not change, just our circumstances in life. 

More time passes, and one day we find ourselves in the roles of adults and parents. Hopefully, we continue the practice of daily prayer time and pass it on to the next generation of children.

But, the prayers we uttered in childhood gave way to ones focused on our kids, careers, and needs of our busy lives. We pray for ourselves and for the next generation.

But, what about our parents and the older generations? Do you stop and pray the occasional prayer for parents?

As the world marches on, our parents undergo changes beyond their control. Where they once stood front and center in our lives, they now watch us from the sidelines. They cheer us on all the while succumbing to the ravages of time.

They might hide their difficulties, so they don’t interrupt the lives of their children. They only want what is best for them, even at the risk of their own health and safety.

Before we all become saddened by these thoughts, we must remember this is the normal cycle of life. Even back in Biblical times, children grew up and left their parents.

Our purpose here is to encourage each us to remember the sacrifice our parents made for us to enjoy our lives. Part of that responsibility includes making sure we pray for them too.

Life keeps moving us forward, but we need to make time to look back. Cherish your parents by praying for them daily. Prayer is an amazing way to arm yourself spiritually.

I’ve included a prayer for parents specifically at the end to help out with that.

bible verse for prayer for parents

What does the Bible say about caring for our parents?

Here are some verses to look at about parents and aging:

  • Exodus 20:12: “Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the LORD your God is giving you.”
  • Isaiah 46:4: “Even to your old age and gray hairs I am He, I am He who will sustain you. I have made you, and I will carry you; I will sustain you, and I will rescue you.”
  • 1 Timothy 5:1-2: “Do not rebuke an older man harshly, but exhort him as if he were your father. Treat younger men as brothers; 2. older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity.”
  • Leviticus 19:32: “Stand up in the presence of the aged, show respect for the elderly, and revere your God. I am the Lord.”
  • 1 Peter 5:1: “To the elders among you, I appeal as a fellow elder and a witness of Christ’s sufferings who also will share in the glory to be revealed.”
  • Psalm 71:9: “Do not cast me away when I am old; do not forsake me when my strength is gone.”
  • 1 Timothy 5:8: “But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.”
  • 1 Timothy 5:4: “But if a widow has children or grandchildren, let them first learn to show godliness to their own household and to make some return to their parents, for this is pleasing in the sight of God.”

God cares about us even as we age. And when God cares about something, we are called to do the same. Do not neglect to care for your parents with your prayers. Understand that as they age, they will need your help in many ways.

Here are some ideas on how to show your parents some appreciation during their golden years:

  • Call them as often possible.
  • Listen to them and emphasize.
  • Be an advocate for their care and needs.
  • If you are far away, ask others to help around the house with things like mowing or cleaning.
  • Encourage them to stay active.
  • Create memories by doing things together.
  • Encourage them without being bossy.
  • Send cards and drawings made by their grandchildren.

My parents are gone, and I miss them daily. If you still have yours, cherish these days because one day they will be gone. Now is the time to do as much as possible for them.

Be an example for your children, so they know how to care for you in the future. Growing old is a gift from God, and it is our job to make those final years as golden as we can. 

A Prayer for Parents

Heavenly Father, I find it hard to watch my parents slow down as they age. Thank you for your gift of parents and family. Thank you for all the time I get to spend with them and all the things they taught me through the years.

Strengthen them in mind and body. Provide for their needs. Let them continue walking with You in grace and growing in Your wisdom.

Help me to understand their needs and grant me the wisdom to know what to do for them. Teach me to honor my parents today and always and let me be a good example for my children to follow.

Allow their final days to be filled with Your comfort and love. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen.

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  • Yvonne Morgan

    I am a wife, a mom of two grown daughters, and one son who lives with Jesus. I recently became a grandmother for the first time. I am passionate about missions and sharing the amazing stories of seeing Christ in action on my mission journeys. God led me to set up a charity almost 20 years ago and now we care for orphans in Nepal and Myanmar. When I am not on the mission field, I work full time. I hope my stories inspire you to reach out and be the hands and feet of Christ to someone.      For More Information: Orphan Work page is https://www.facebook.com/OREInc    Website is www.orphanreliefeffort.org   Blog is www.turningmountainsintomolehills.org  

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Faith Brown

Sunday 31st of July 2022

This is a wonderfully necessary conversation. I lost my Mom in 2018. A warm, compassionate, determined spirited woman. Her presence would not be ignored! My father is sooo lost without her it's difficult to watch! Growing up he was my hero. I keep looking for a remnant of what he taught me. My prayer is that "I won't lose faith" over his lack of motivation to self love. He gave love, consideration, and compassion, a gentle prayerful leader. He appears so empty for GOD!!! He expects and waits for his children to wait on him, even in things that only he can do..."CALL ON YOUR GOD!!!" ......he acts as if he has a problem with God since Mom's assent; instead of building on that relationship he looks something/someone else to "LEAN" on...."pity me, pity me!" I am alone with my siblings are jointly working through this season. It is a difficult undertaking to remind someone with diminishing capacity of GOD's great blessings down through the years. So being able to just talk about this with others who are going through this provides some relief! My desire is to always honor, but never enable!

Ava James

Thursday 4th of June 2020

This is so amazing and such an encouragement to honour our parents! I see my parents growing old and l am so glad that if my arms are not close to hand, the Everlasting Arms will never let them go!!

Yvonne Morgan

Friday 5th of June 2020

Amen. Our parents are so precious. Love them and pray for them while you still have them. Thanks

Melinda Viergever Inman

Thursday 4th of June 2020

This is so timely, Yvonne. There has been a cultural shift, a lack of regard for parents and grandparents. Yes, the people who raised us were flawed, just as we are flawed. And yes, all of them made mistakes, as we do as well. And yet, they merit our prayers, our forgiveness, our love, and our appreciation. They need our prayers and our attention. Your words reminded me that I hadn't connected with my parents as much as usual during this pandemic. There were other family crises that turned my attention toward those needs. I need to Facetime my parents today. God bless you, sister!

Yvonne Morgan

Friday 5th of June 2020

I hope you do talk with them today as I am sure it will brighten their day. It is easy to get distracted and forget about them and we all do from time to time. I pray they stay healthy during this pandemic. Thanks.

Dawn Ward

Thursday 4th of June 2020

This is such a touching article. My mom passed a little over a year ago, and it just brought me to tears. My dad is still alive and won’t talk to us about the Lord. Doesn’t want to hear it. Says it’s private. I think I forget to pray for him because I am afraid he will die not knowing the Lord. That’s the exact reason I should be praying. Thanks so much for the wonderful reminder.

Yvonne Morgan

Friday 5th of June 2020

I am so sorry for your loss Dawn. Our moms are so special in our lives. I will also pray for your father to listen and for comfort for both of you. God bless.

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